Forgiveness has served us well, it teaches us to release blame, shame, guilt and to forgive ourselves for experiencing suffering, as well as others for being involved in that experience. However, forgiveness whilst it has been so powerful for us in one paradigm can be seen in a very new way in the new paradigm. Forgiveness implies you have been wronged in some way. In the new paradigm of Oneness, there is no right and wrong.
Every experience teaches us something. Not only that, this is a very linear way of looking at things. We create every situation with Divine Contracts, Attractions, Reflections, Destiny. If we were destined to experience our experiences, why are we needing to forgive? It was designed that way, for our growth, our experience, our evolution. Yes, there were individuals involved who may have acted out of integrity and "hurt us" however if this is what they were brought in to do why are we needing to forgive them? Why are we holding onto any energy at all?
Our destiny shows us that all experiences are within our Grand Design, therefore we can release into loving all involved without judging any individual into what or why they acted this way or that. Our focus instead is on ourselves and witnessing how we acted, reacted, for this journey as always is about You. Anyone in your reality is a trigger and an actor within your play. You are the central role and it is always about how you act, react.
There is no need to forgive. Not even yourself. You acted, reacted, created in your past based on the best you knew how. It would have happened the exact same way had you lived it again! That was what was meant to happen, for all involved. When we let go of understanding why another acted a certain way, we come back to ourselves. We do not even need to understand why we act, react certain ways for we realise it has always been perfect.
Any pain we felt was pain already within us that was needed to be brought out. We cannot feel pain that was not already within us. A fully empowered being will not be "hurt" by anyone for they recognise their power and there is no pain within them to be brought out. Everyone around us that has caused us pain has been bringing pain from within us, they are our allies whether they (or we) realise it or not. This is not to say that we deserved their actions or that it was right. It was neither right nor wrong, it simply was. It is always about the Experience. All beings on this planet are our allies. We are here to serve one another and ourselves. This Journey is, always, about You